The Gay Thread
September 12th, 2019 at 6:06:31 PM permalink | |
Face Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 61 Posts: 3941 |
I'm glad for that and thank you for the civility. I don't agree with myself, either, really. Not that that helps...
I agree. I don't fault anyone for being irate or having an emotional response over such a charge, just as I don't for those who took issue with the NAMBLA insinuation. But yet again, I'm bound by precedence and a wish to remain consistent. I have before witnessed folks refer to Catholic priests as pedophiles. We have a Catholic priest as a member. I did not ban that person. I have in the Sandusky talks witnessed folks refer to gays as pedophiles. We have gay members. I did not ban that person. Perhaps this matter should be considered differently because of the specification, and perhaps I f#$%ed that part up. But having been in similar situations and having gotten through them without punitive action,... it seemed to be the right bet. Even if I did lose it.
Yes! Perfect example! I did something similar once. Was talking guns and someone brought up demographics. Of course there was immediate backlash (racist!). I ignored that and took a look. Know what? He wasn't "right" but he damn sure wasn't wrong. And the conversation went down that path, and absolutely nothing happened. I took the stance that gun violence is a black problem. Anyone remember that bit of WoV history? Know why you don't? Because it wasn't an exercise to incite but rather to inform. I didn't make proclamations, I offered sources. I didn't disparage, I stated facts. You want to comment on the study of rates of pedophilia across demographics? Go for it! Education is always good, and real talks are the best talks. But speaking opinion as certainty is not going to be looked upon favorably going forward. Nor is suspected feigned ignorance, or any other bulls#$% tactic some like to play to reach across the line and get their jabs in. I will defend debate to the end. Ad homs and petty jousting I'm just tired of. Be bold and risk defeat, or be cautious and encourage it. |
September 12th, 2019 at 8:54:54 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25013 |
Isn't Oncedear supposedly a mod here? Where is he on this, he hasn't posted since the 4th. I doubt he even reads this thread. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
September 12th, 2019 at 11:30:25 PM permalink | |
Shrek Member since: Aug 13, 2019 Threads: 6 Posts: 1635 |
Interesting how you've explained your position on this numerous times, yet there are a couple members who continue to ignore your explanation and claim that you want to abolish marriage age limits. And nobody has called them out for "suspected feigned ignorance" or "any other bulls#$% tactic to get their jabs in". Oh well, it is what it is. Was just wondering if you noticed. Anyway if you're not gonna worry about it, then neither am I. Onward and upward! 👍 |
September 13th, 2019 at 2:14:08 AM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18222 |
See, they are really upset because all I have done is use the same reasoning that the gay marriage supporters gave to legalize gay marriage. All of the sudden they decide we need to have "restrictions" on marriage. For years "that two people love each other" was all that supposedly mattered. I also used their logic about abortion in the same way. "Her body, her choice!" Is what matters to them for abortion. For abortion she is somehow old enough to make a decision without her parents involved. Ditto for using birth control pills. Now all of a sudden she is not old enough. No logic in their positions or arguments. The President is a fink. |
September 13th, 2019 at 5:19:32 AM permalink | |
Dalex64 Member since: Mar 8, 2014 Threads: 3 Posts: 3687 | You didn't use "logic" in the same way. You removed the "between consenting adults" requirement of gay marriage, and THEN applied "people who love each other" to something else. Then you go on and apply "people should be able to choose whatever they want" to a bunch of other situations, none of which are related to gay marriage. Basically, you gave taken the arguments for gay marriage out of context and selectively apply those arguments, with out their context or conditions, to other things. "Everyone is entitled to his own opinion, but not to his own facts." Daniel Patrick Moynihan |
September 13th, 2019 at 5:41:58 AM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18222 |
Sorry, but I did use them exactly. There was no "consenting adult" part of gay marriage, just that "they love each other." In any case, libs are for teens being allowed to get birth control outside parental consent. Therefore, they must feel these teens are adult enough to make their own decisions. It just shows how faulty the whole gay marriage argument was that the same people who favored it all of the sudden say "it does not apply here." Limbaugh is so right that when you turn liberal's logic back on them they cannot handle it. The President is a fink. |
September 13th, 2019 at 5:56:40 AM permalink | |
Dalex64 Member since: Mar 8, 2014 Threads: 3 Posts: 3687 | That's why I hardly ever respond to you on political issues. Your arguments are a mess of opinion, denial, and omission. "Everyone is entitled to his own opinion, but not to his own facts." Daniel Patrick Moynihan |
September 13th, 2019 at 6:02:10 AM permalink | |
AZDuffman Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 135 Posts: 18222 |
"Opinion" in a political argument? Call the media! Meanwhile all the liberal arguments on here are just a mess. The President is a fink. |
September 13th, 2019 at 9:03:49 AM permalink | |
Face Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 61 Posts: 3941 |
This, AZD, is what you are doing to a "T". You have taken the statement "marry who you love" and are arguing that it includes children. No one said children. No one said fetuses, corporations, or any other non-people, nor have they included children, the mentally deficient, the vegetative state, or any other entity deemed incapable of making decisions. You have oversimplified the argument and are now attacking the oversimplification. Be bold and risk defeat, or be cautious and encourage it. |
September 13th, 2019 at 9:50:33 AM permalink | |
Shrek Member since: Aug 13, 2019 Threads: 6 Posts: 1635 |
Yep, this is why it's impossible to debate libbies. They say something one second, but as soon as you repeat it back to them, they exclaim in horror, "I never said that!!!" WTF?! How in the world is one supposed to debate people who deny reality?? 🤷 In this case, libbies argued over & over that you should be able to marry "whoever you love". That was the only criteria according to libbies—whoever you love! Nothing else!! But ever since gay marriage became legal, the libbies now want to start putting restrictions on marriage. For example, when you point out that polygamists fit the "marry whoever you love" criteria, the libbies flip out and say, "No, it can only be 2 people! No more than that!" And when you point out that people under 18 also fit the "marry whoever you love" criteria, they flip out again and place another restriction, and they cry with anger, "No, it can only be consenting adults, damn it!!" Oh, the irony! All of a sudden marrying "whoever you love" is no longer good enough! This is why libbies are impossible to deal with. They used one argument to get their way on gay marriage, but when you try to apply THEIR argument to other cases, they flip out and start placing all these new restrictions on who can and can't get married. So dishonest, but hey, I've come to expect it from DEMocRATS. 🙄 |