Original Sin?
December 19th, 2014 at 12:27:11 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25131 |
Original, venial, mortal, it's all nonsense to me. It would drive me insane to walk around all day worrying if I'm offending god or not. But that's the intent, isn't it, that's why so many suffer from Catholic guilt. And how could stealing a paper clip possibly be an insult to god, c'mon. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 19th, 2014 at 12:31:31 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25131 |
I did the same thing at that age, went looking for answers. And I found them in a different place than you did. There's nothing wrong with religion, as long as it's not harming anybody. If it gives you peace and harmony, more power to you. It would do the opposite for me. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 19th, 2014 at 1:18:53 PM permalink | |
Face Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 61 Posts: 3941 |
You do well enough explaining. Thanks for taking the time =) I guess I asked because I've been doing a lot of reflecting lately, and "commitment" is a concept I keep coming back to. I see many here and at WoV who have it by the ton, and you and your faith seem to exemplify what I've been pondering. You're "all in". I'm sure you have other hobbies, interests, and passions, but no one doubts your commitment to the cross. I'm finding I lack that, and I'm not sure why. It's there sort-of, but never at a level that I've seen in others. I know I write passionately about certain things at times, and none of that is concocted or faked... but it's always a temporary thing. You've all followed along as I worked hours every day for months getting my race team going, but now, even considering I have absolutely nothing to do, it just sits. For the time being, I'm just not into it. Same with fishing. Guys are still pulling late season trout as recent as yesterday; I haven't gone out once. Still have nothing to do, no reason not to go. I'm just not into it right now. My job? For 6 years I worked every day. I'd put in my 8 hours, come home, and continue researching gaming math, AP, marketing, game play. I did it until I went to bed. I did it on weekends. I did it every day. Then one day - poof. Couldn't handle being in a casino even one more day. I see people who give their lives to a cause or stay with a company for 30+ years, and I just wonder. How? Why? Are they insane to ignore all the other things life has to offer? Do they have it figured out and are on the path to mastery? Do they even have a choice, one way or the other? I dunno. But I wonder. I guess I always assumed your faith was for a reason I would consider "dumb". Probably grew up that way, probably was enrolled into church before an age you could choose to do otherwise, probably had a pastor father. I suppose I view a lot of the religious like this - not much conscious thought, just doing it because you were raised with it. But it appears I was wrong. You were lucky enough to "find a calling". And all it took was an open heart and being brave enough to search for it. Kudos. Be bold and risk defeat, or be cautious and encourage it. |
December 19th, 2014 at 1:46:03 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25131 |
Joseph Campbell calls it following your bliss. Find what you like to do above all else and make that your life's work. You'll find it if you keep looking and don't get sidetracked. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 19th, 2014 at 1:50:58 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 |
I reckon you've heard the old starfish story before. A young boy was walking down the beach after the tide had gone out and for miles of beach there were starfish stranded on shore dying. He walked along picking up a starfish at a time and flinging them into the ocean to save their lives. An old man walked by and said, "Son don't you see how many starfish there are - miles and miles of them, how can you possibly make a difference?" The little boy stooped down picked up a starfish, flung it into the ocean, and said, "It made a difference to that one." The old man scratched his head, bent down and picked up a starfish. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |
December 19th, 2014 at 1:56:24 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 |
You've got to stop thinking that way and instead think about how can I best show my love for God and others. The two greatest commandments Jesus gives us say nothing about not sinning - they boil down to love. If you focusing of loving others a happy byproduct is your sins don't worry you and are less frequent. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |
December 19th, 2014 at 2:12:20 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25131 |
Tell that to the congregation, they're the ones wracked with guilt for letting god down all the time. I would be a neurotic mess. I'm thankful every day my parents were not religious and let me go my own way. Breaking free of the god curse would have been a hard road to go on.
If you don't believe in sin they don't bother you at all. Why would they. I don't believe in Bigfoot either and spend zero time every day thinking about him. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 19th, 2014 at 3:17:35 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 | Except you do worry about your mistakes and to a point that is a sign of a healthy person. By the way as someone who works very closely with many Catholics and a large congregation they are not wracked with guilt or neurotic, you are using a false and exaggerated premise for your argument. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |
December 19th, 2014 at 3:25:39 PM permalink | |
Evenbob Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 146 Posts: 25131 |
I'm sure catholic guilt is an urban myth (rolls eyes). The thought that we're here on earth to 'behave ourselves' is a silly idea and not one borne out by any kind of actual proof. If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose. |
December 19th, 2014 at 4:32:52 PM permalink | |
FrGamble Member since: Oct 24, 2012 Threads: 67 Posts: 7596 | We are hear to love each other. The proof is how you feel when you don't. “It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” ( |