A vocation in a vocation

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June 2nd, 2018 at 6:00:03 PM permalink
AZDuffman
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Quote: FrGamble
No monkhood for me, though its appeal is still very strong.


I am sure the decision was correct and will do you well. Maybe reward yourself with a few hours a week of the kind of reflection the monkhood would have provided. Or a week a year vacation?
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June 2nd, 2018 at 6:37:18 PM permalink
FrGamble
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Thanks AZ!
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June 2nd, 2018 at 7:08:27 PM permalink
Evenbob
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This is the real reason FrG isn't going:

If you take a risk, you may lose. If you never take a risk, you will always lose.
June 2nd, 2018 at 7:09:00 PM permalink
rxwine
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Here you go.


Quote:
The Road Not Taken

By Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
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June 2nd, 2018 at 7:28:44 PM permalink
beachbumbabs
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Quote: rxwine
Here you go.


One of the finest poems ever written. Well chosen here.

Speaking of good choices, Father, I commend you on yours. I think it takes a particular type of bravery to face the demons you know rather than change your situation. I wish you much happiness and a renewed sense of spirit in your vocation.
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June 2nd, 2018 at 7:46:04 PM permalink
aceofspades
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Quote: FrGamble
Probably not the best place to get spiritual direction or advice, but I have found the conversations and insights here at times very helpful. I am currently discerning the possibility of religious life and becoming a monk. This is a big change from a diocesan priest. A monk lives in community and gives up all worldly possessions and things to live a life of intense prayer. Right now I'm on the front lines so to speak as a parish priest and this new vocation in a vocation would be a kind of retreat into the monestary. I would miss the active life I live now but the call to be more radically committed to prayer is strong. I of course welcome any thoughts, questions, or comments it might be very helpful in my discernment. God bless!


Padre - you know where I stand on religion so I will not restate that herein - I will merely answer your question as I would to anyone seeking to change their career, so to speak:

If you are not fulfilled in your present role, then, by all means, seek out something you that will fulfill you -- we all have our own dreams and wishes for our lives - if becoming a monk leads you towards your dreams, then I say go for it

If you are merely posting this to get a pat on the back for your future life of asceticism, then that likely runs counter to how a monk should think

Do you think your pull towards monastic life was brought about by a Hume-ian "is/ought' quandary?
June 2nd, 2018 at 8:29:59 PM permalink
FrGamble
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I'm glad you have a favorably view of asceticism. I was a little surprised by the negative view held by some for that way of life. Nevertheless that was not the reason.

Nothing I do or believe is influenced by Hume. I love the guy and he's brilliant. But I think his "is/ought" guillotine is self- contradictory and ends up cutting off his head and humanity's.
“It is with the smallest brushes that the artist paints the most exquisitely beautiful pictures.” (
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